This morning The Hindu carries a long piece I wrote on one of Jaipur’s more sensational trials. The idea of “samjhauta” or “compromise” has informed a lot of my work over years, and this instance is particularly heart breaking. Court documents and chargesheets are always interesting things to read; in this instance, it was intriguing how the police accorded one woman – Pushpa – infinite agency when she creates a cycle of repression and exploitation; while the other – Shweta – has zero agency and is thoroughly incapable of independent action.
One dawn in January last year, a young woman slipped out of her house, walked down to the Gandhi Nagar station and stepped into the path of an oncoming train.
She survived, but lost her left leg and all sensation below her waist. Last Wednesday, the woman, Pushpa*, was brought before the Special Judge for Women Atrocities and Dowry Cases to identify the three policemen who, she alleged, had sexually tortured her to the point of suicide. Also in court was Shweta*, a 20-year-old known to Pushpa, who claimed that Pushpa and her cohorts had drugged, raped and blackmailed her in December 2010.
The two women had been friends, meeting occasionally in Pushpa’s room to gossip, experiment with cigarettes and alcohol and on one occasion photographed themselves kissing. In many ways, their twin trials document the contradictory impulses of the small Indian town grown big, where tech-savvy youth shun the contractual new economy for the security of the bureaucracy, the government school, and the government bank, and the sheher’s liberatory promise is tempered by the lingering claustrophobia of the samaj.
first i want to thank journalists like aman sethi who venture into such complicated situations, which have to do with social tabus and patriarchy. i feel all we must learn from this whole complex case is that we become good partners/friends in our roles as parents/teachers to our young ones, particularly the girls, in discussing delicate issues like sexuality and gender dimension to it. that the upkeep of izzat is not thrust upon the girl/woman and her family/community but that ALL of us are responsible for whatever happens in our society. why should the father of the girl feel ashamed or more ashamed than the policeman or the other men and their families involved? we have to gender sensitize the masses and create an atmosphere of equality between the sexes, between the families/communities to which the girl or the boy belong. this discrimination of the girls and their families must stop!
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